How Full Is Your Glass?

Is your glass half full or half empty? Really, would not you rather have an over flowing glass and need more of them? At time people get consumed by the feeling that their glass does not quite have enough in it. You have all heard the analogy of the glass being half empty verses the glass being half full. I propose that our glasses are overflowing. At this point you may say that yes my glass is overflowing with bad things. You need to shift your focus to the good things that your glass is overflowing with. If you are unsure of just how to shift your mental focus to concentrate on good things rather than bad, a good place to start is with a gratitude list or lists.

Gratitude list are places where you can write about things you are grateful for, moments of good fortune, or good feelings that come your way. If you are a person that always feels money is going away from you then make a gratitude list for all the money you receive. Write down all times when money comes to you. Even if it is only a penny found on the street. You will be surprised at how fast you fill up that list.

If you are The Rodney Dangerfield of your family and feel that you get no respect, a good list for you to make would be one about the positive qualities of members of your family and things that they have done nice for you in the past. After you have done this start a list for they nice things that your family does for you on a daily basis, even simple things like having you over for dinner even if the dinner itself did not go over too well. This list will begin to fill up very fast as well.

Life is good, may you always have too much to drink! If you are a person that does not like you job you can also make a list about the things that you do like about your job. Making that list does not imply that you will need to stay at that job forever. What it will do is shift your focus to make yourself feel better until something more desirable comes along. When you begin to write down things that you like, such as working good hours, or at a convenient location, in regards to your present position you will be surprised to find just how fast this list fills up as well. As you begin to think about the good things that new focus will start to draw better situations at your current position and in the long run create a life of your liking. Everyone has some sort of trauma from their childhood. These traumas that were caused by parents, other authority figures, siblings, a classmate, or playmates, and can haunt a person into the grave. However, making a list of all of the good experiences of your childhood can ease a great deal of that trauma. If that trauma is something that has given you the need for therapy, either continue with that therapy or seek it out. While you are doing that also make your list of the good times of childhood and maintain your mental focus on those times to aid in your recovery. Even those with horrible childhoods have some pleasant times to remember. The more you write down on your list of positive childhood memories the more you will remember. This will help in your healing process.

You may be a person that thinks you lead a boring life. If so you can start a list of experiences that you have that you enjoy. As you begin to make this list you will begin to find that your live is full or wonderful experiences and you will begin to have more of them. Your list of exciting life experiences will grow as quickly as any of these others lists. Make sure that what you focus on are the types of experiences that you wish to have more of. The more you focus on any type of experience the more that type of experience will be drawn to you. If your romantic relationship seems lackluster it might be a good idea to create a list about all of the good experience you have had in the past and those times in the present that are more of what you desire. Make a list that concentrates on the good qualities of your partner and all of the great times that you experience with your partner. As you focus on those qualities and times they will increase and you will begin to notice more and more. Your attitude will begin to change and that will build more attraction chemistry between the two of you as a result. Barring extreme circumstances, one person in a relationship having a positive attitude can bring the other into alignment with the positive. If you are not presently in a relationship the positive attitude you gain from focusing on lists you have written for other areas in your life just may have an impact on attracting that someone special. At times in your life you may not have the benefit of making an physical list. For example, if you are out at a restaurant or on holiday and a few things begin to go wrong. If you wish to save the day and shift focus so that the rest of the time is enjoyable begin to make a mental list of everything you are experiencing that is positive or to your liking. Your focus will be on having a good experience. No need to let a bad glitch snowball into a complete blizzard. I first published this here http://socyberty.com/advice/how-full-is-your-glass/#ixzz3i4EToiAD

Are You Waiting For Pigs To Fly?

Are you waiting for flying pigs? Many people spend their lives waiting for good things to happen to them. Sometimes, on some level, they believe and even say, that these good things will only happen when pigs fly. Thus the career they want becomes a flying pig. The spouse a person wants becomes a flying pig. An overflowing bank account becomes a flying pig. The dream vacation becomes a flying pig. Ultimately even happiness becomes a flying pig. Unconsciously, these people keep their focus on the impossibility of flying pigs instead of accepting a universe of possibilities that they can create if they will only put their focus on making the seemingly impossible happen for them. It may be because they were born in poverty, with a disability of some sort, or have been people whom have made a some bad choices in life. Their experience has kept them trapped in a mindset of “that’s impossible” instead of one of “how do I make this possible”. In turn their mindset helps to create more negative experiences that then further trap them in this cycle of impossibility. If you are one of these people the good news is that you can change impossibilities into possibilities by changing your perception and taking action based on that change. This can start with the adoption of an attitude of possibility.

If you hold an attitude that you won’t have the money you desire, the relationship that you desire, the health your desire, the career you desire until pigs fly then be aware that pigs have flown. The first pig flew in Leysdown, in Kent, in 1909. Yes, this is a historical fact. In 1909 Lord John Theodore Cuthbert Moore-Brabazon, 1st Baron Brabazon of Tara put a pig in a wicker basket with sign saying “I am the first pig to fly” and took that pig on an airplane flight.

Lord Brabazon, through a change in perception of the phrase “When pigs fly”, turned it from impossibility to a possibility. Through a change in our perception we too can adopt an attitude of possibility within our minds that leads to actions that make possible everything we truly desire.

So now you have no further excuses for not doing what you want to be doing! Stop waiting for flying pigs to bring you your miracle. Pigs can fly and already have! I first published this piece here http://socyberty.com/issues/when-will-pigs-fly/#ixzz3i48zV0Ea